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What If I’m No Good At Meditating?

Spirituality & Inner Work

A person sits atop a mountain, gazing at the expansive view of surrounding peaks and valleys in the distance.

To meditate is simply to sit, and stay.

The act of meditation appears so complicated to most of us. We are told we need to “do something specific with the breath, sit in this way, but not that way; focus here, no, focus there.” 

It becomes ripe territory for the mind to take us over and turn the event into another act of self-aggression. Beneath all the fixing, doing, changing and improving, is something else.

Does it feel good? Not usually, though sometimes it is peaceful and calm. Most of the time we just become aware of how busy our minds actually are. This is not a problem.

When we tolerate the activity of the mind, at some point the body just naturally stills a bit. Being open and gentle toward whatever is happening is the practice.

Can I be with this? And if the answer is no, no problem, try again another time.

Hello, I’m Jessica Baker. I’m looking forward to sharing insights and encouragement on empowering You. My education, training, expertise, and life experience informs my approach in helping you to find balance and fulfillment in your own life. Whether you’re navigating personal challenges, seeking growth, or just curious, I honor your courage to move in this direction. 

If you would like more - and want to see how we can work together to enhance your mental, physical, emotional and spiritual health. Drop me a message at tendingtheground@gmail.com to start a conversation or stay tuned for upcoming blogs that I’m working on. 

Meet Jessica

Psychotherapy, MA, LPC  |  Virtual and in-person sessions
Licensed in Colorado  |  Free online, 15-minute consultations available

Psychotherapy, MA, LPC
Virtual and in-person sessions
Licensed in Colorado 
Free online, 15-minute consultations available